True Forgiveness: What It Is and What It Is Not

There are many misconceptions about true forgiveness. It’s not about ignoring pain or letting people off the hook. It’s about trusting God with justice. It’s about allowing ourselves to heal. This episode is an encouragement for anyone struggling with forgiveness to take intentional steps toward freedom and restoration…
Episode #91 True Forgiveness: What It Is and What It Is Not
In this compelling episode, I welcome back Theresa Whiting, a returning guest from Episode 31 (Restoration from Sexual Brokenness). Theresa has dedicated her life to guiding women toward the redemptive work of Jesus. Today, she dives deep into the concept of true forgiveness. She explores what it is and what it is not. She also shares how we can truly embrace it in our lives.
In this episode, we discuss the following concepts surrounding true forgiveness:
- Misconceptions About Forgiveness
- The Concept of “Easy Forgiveness”
- Grace, Justice, and the Full Picture of Forgiveness
- Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation
- The Process of True Forgiveness
- Practical Steps for Walking in Forgiveness
“If sin wasn’t a big deal, Jesus wouldn’t have had to go to the cross.”
“Forgiveness isn’t a feeling; it’s a decision.”
“You may have to forgive someone 70 times 7 for the same offense as memories resurface.”
Resources mentioned in this UnPerfect Podcast Episode:
- Future Grace by John Piper
- The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
- Matthew 6:14-15 – Jesus’ words on forgiveness
- Luke 7 – The sinful woman and Jesus’ teaching on gratitude and forgiveness